- Adjustable enhancer with quick release snaps
- Leather with nickel-free metal snaps
- 10.3? x .5?/26 cm x 1 cm
andquot;Fully adjustable one size fits all leather enhancer with patented quick release. Use the cinch to tighten and use the button snap for a quick release.andquot;
List Price: $ 18.50
Price: $ 4.86
Question by make some noise: Why do some people take astrology so literally?
Why do they depend on it to explain every aspect or every facet of their lives/psyche? If you look around you close enough, you’ll see that the people you know can’t be explained through birth charts. I mean I have a Cancer friend who is the most enigmatic person I know, in a bad way. She’s a nymphomaniac, (guess that’s popular nowadays because so is my ex Pisces friend) and all that’s on her mind is sex, sex, sex, the only Cancer trait she has is that she can cook, and that’s only cause her mom forced her to learn. She’s not a shoulder to cry on, and she’s not compassionate at all. She always talks ill about me and her other friends with me, but I keep her around because if I dropped her she would spread even more rumors about how terrible of a person I am for doing it.
Some people will go as far as to generalize and categorize people of a sign to all be the same and have the exact same traits. Not every Aquarius is aloof and detached, I know a couple who are rather clingy and dependent and they have fire Moons. Not all Scorpios are sexy, trust me, my sister’s boyfriend was a Scorpio and there is absolutely nothing sexy or mysterious or tantalizing about him. My close friend is a Libra and she is not diplomatic or charming at all, she’s argumentative and a limelight hog. My mom is a Taurus and she is not stubborn, she’s very tolerant and able to see from other perspectives. My dad is a Leo and he is not proud or boastful or self-centered because all he can talk about is money, he might as well be my mom. There are so many people in your everyday lives that prove somethings about astrology wrong yet people still claim that so-so sign is the whiniest, or the stupidest. Why do people take astrology that far? It’s mean-spirited and ignorant. It’s essentially racism in a different form. Why judge a person based on a date they had no control over? We learned not to judge a person by their skin color but by the content of their character right?
I notice people favor their own signs over others on here quite often, they might as well all be Leos, huh? But I’m not going to assume that, that’s ignorant and juvenile. So just because someone has this or that trait, they’re automatically a Scorpio or a Capricorn. I think it’s really unhealthy to be taking astrology so far that some people refuse to associate themselves with certain signs just cause most of the people under that sign exhibit unfavorable traits yet I witness it here all the time with the “worst/best sign” questions and answers. It’s just really sad and pathetic to see people take it this far. It’s supposed to be a hobby, and it’s not even proven to be accurate stuff, yet people swear by it just cause it’s dead on for them, but it isn’t for other people all around them. Have they ever taken into account that maybe they’re just looking too far into it? You shouldn’t get so caught up into something that it destroys your ability to rationalize and reason. They forget that childhood, experiences, relationships, forces outside of astrology can contribute to the identity of a person too. But still they believe astrology is the sole tool to finding themselves? Something to do with their charts, I suspect?
Seems like astrology is just a means of boosting self-esteem and convincing oneself that one is better than the rest because the stars say so, and to give people an excuse to write off other people and accuse them of being awful and not even give them chances because they’re a certain sign. I don’t understand why people would want to take it to such a destructive level
Seriously, she continuously bullies me about being so prude and too narrow-minded but she doesn’t understand that I’m practically asexual, probably my Virgo Mars, but a lot of people have Virgo Mars and are perfectly sexual. But no, she’s not safe, maybe she’s not a slut but she is really disgusting, she broadcasts all the dirty things she does on social networking sites like it makes her cool, and the stuff she talks about I would think is not even acceptable in pornography. It really is disturbing and she’s really untrustworthy but I can’t drop her. I need her around, she’s my only connection to the social/outside world. My Libra friend is a good friend, she’s loyal and steadfast and shares my values, she’s a great person even if she is an attention-seeker. She has her reasons, I mean she’s neglected by her Leo mother and her Scorpio father is estranged, so I can’t blame her for craving attention from everyone.
And I’m not angry at them, I’m just angry at the world. I’m a self-descr
Ah forget the last bit..got cut off and forgot where I was going. But anyway, appreciated the analogy, blah, I understand it a bit more now. I think I was trying to say that I’m a self-described misanthrope. But I think I might be, I don’t get turned on, no sexual drive at all. Even when I try to, nothing happens. But yeah, I think I’ll only be using my cooter for reproduction purposes. Haha
Best answer:
Answer by blah
I really can’t stand it when people generalize the signs or try to talk about them like there’s a best or worst sign and how people say they actually hate certain signs. I mean how can you hate an astrology sign? You don’t know every person in that sign in the entire world so there’s no reason to say that. Astrology is a tool to help people better understand themselves and others and by applying personality traits to people and finding how specifically they use these traits, you can understand them better. It is not a fact or a science, it’s a spirituality. It’s not a religion either. I’m a science and hard facts kind of guy, but I’m not closed minded, I like to be open to the unknown because that’s what science is about, change. I’ve noticed that astrology really applies to me and people close to me and that’s good enough for me. I don’t “believe” in it, I just know that it helped me understand myself and that it was, in many ways, accurate. The universe does effect us, I’m not sure if astrology is just a science we haven’t explained yet or purely a coincidence, but I’m open to it and I find it fascinating. I am very well read in terms of astrology and it’s a hobby I really enjoy. I’ve found that I understand people really well and I’m able to accurately guess people’s signs without knowing their birthdays. It’s a correlation I can’t explain. As for your “friends” if they are really as bad as you say they are, why are they your friends? Are you just angry at them right now? I’m sure they do have positive qualities about them and the fact that your parents are very well rounded people is probably because they’re more mature than you and your friends. I suggest looking deeper into the signs because astrology is not generalized the way most people on here try and say it is. There are many different traits for every sign and they all represent different parts of the human psyche and the different archetypes that lurk inside of everyone. Not everyone in the sign will be the same and that is because astrology is not about comparing others, it’s about your own basic potential and your environment, how you’re raised, traumatizing events, and everything you face in life determine how you use your basic strengths and weaknesses and how you develop new ones. Your astrology sign is like a blank canvas, the base of your personality, and can be molded and painted on by events in your life, but that canvas will never change sizes and underneath all that paint will still be the same. The canvas thickness, texture, and quality will make it better suited for different mediums in art and less suited for others the same way everyone can handle certain situations better than others. If you paint water color on canvas, you’ll just soak the canvas and the color won’t hold, but put it on watercolor paper and you will create a beautiful image with vivid colors and detailed brush strokes. I hope you like my analogy, I’m very proud of it 
Edit: I’ve never liked the idea that girls are bad people because they like to have sex. I mean, as long as they’re safe and not using it to hurt anyone, it’s perfectly natural. If you’re not ready don’t do it, but if you’re ready and it makes you feel good, girls should not be criticized for doing it. I’m a guy and there was a period of time a couple years ago where my girlfriend’s friends made her feel so bad for having sex, she wouldn’t have sex for months. Guys get endless praise for sex and girls just get tortured when really, it’s no one’s business. Having sex does not make you a slut because eventually, everyone has it. I’m sorry your friend is a nymphomaniac and doesn’t appreciate sex for what it is, but it’s really no one’s business and if she tries to make it your business, just ignore her. It’s a private thing, it’s not a competition, so don’t let her bother you.
What do you think? Answer below!
Related Sex Tools For Couples Products
